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Planning
a wedding involves a million decisions.
Using this checklist will ensure that nothing is overlooked.
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UPON
ENGAGEMENT
12 TO 24 MONTHS BEFORE WEDDING |
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Announce
your engagement to family, and then friends. |
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Prepare
and send out newspaper announcement of your engagement.
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Determine
wedding style and degree of formality of your wedding.
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Meet
with clergy.
Arrange for pre-marital counseling or classes suggested
by clergy. |
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Look
for unusual locations, even if they donšt need to
be reserved this far in advance. |
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Begin
to make alternate plans if wedding is to be held
outside.
(Indoor site availability, tents, etc.) |
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Set
date and time of wedding and reception.
Note: You must coordinate your
ceremony site, reception site, date and time of
wedding, budget and size of the wedding before any
other definite plans can be made. |
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Both
families begin to compile guests
lists. (Set definite date for final lists.) |
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Get
information from travel
agents on possible honeymoon locations.
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Shop
for your gown, veil, headpiece,
jewelry and accessories. Note: You should order
your gown at least 7 months before your wedding
date. |
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Select
attendants gowns. Note:
These gowns should also be ordered at approximately
same time as your gown. Obtain a swatch of fabric
to coordinate all other wedding colors. |
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Select
shoes for you and attendants. (If shoes must be
dyed, have them all done at the same time to ensure
the best color match.) |
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Develop
a record-keeping system for all wedding details,
contracts, etc. |
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Register
at stores in the towns of both families.
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Decide
where you will live after your wedding. |
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Select
a Realtor if needed. |
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Begin
looking for an apartment, if necessary. |
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Purchase
calendars for all involved in the wedding, and highlight
all important
wedding-related dates. |
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6
TO 9 MONTHS BEFORE WEDDING |
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Finalize
honeymoon plans. |
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Apply
for passport and arrange for inoculations (if necessary).
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Make
arrangements for rehearsal
dinner. (Or remind groom's mother, if his parents
are
hosting this event.) |
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4
TO 6 MONTHS BEFORE WEDDING |
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Finalize
guest list, eliminate duplicates. |
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Enter
guests' names, addresses, and phone numbers into
appropriate record book. |
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Plan
bachelor/bachelorette party. |
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Remind
both mothers to purchase wedding apparel. (Bridešs
mother has first choice of
color and style.) |
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Try
new hairstyle now, rather than just before wedding.
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Select
major appliances and furnishings for your home together.
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Order
invitations,
wedding stationery, personal stationery with your
married name, etc. |
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Design
maps to wedding and reception sites to be inserted
into invitations. |
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Write
and review wedding vows, if appropriate. |
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Select
pertinent readings, poems, etc. for ceremony. |
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Ask
special people to do reading at the ceremony. |
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Design
wedding program handout for ceremony. |
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Arrange
to have wedding program printed. |
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Begin
shopping for trousseau. |
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Make
sure all deposits are paid, and contracts signed.
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2
TO 4 MONTHS BEFORE WEDDING |
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Make
an appointment for a complete physical and dental
cleaning/checkup. |
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Purchase
garter, cake top, knife, toasting glasses. |
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Purchase
or make pillow for ring bearer. |
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Shop
for honeymoon outfits and going away outfit. |
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Shop
for honeymoon accessories. (Tanning lotion, films,
etc.) |
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Pack
honeymoon clothes which are out of season (bathing
suits, shorts, etc.) |
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Purchase
or arrange to borrow luggage for honeymoon. |
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1
TO 2 MONTHS BEFORE WEDDING |
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Have
formal wedding portrait taken. |
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Send
invitations to rehearsal dinner. (Or remind hostess
to do so.) |
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Plan
bridesmaid's luncheon. |
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Purchase
wedding gift for fiancee. |
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Confirm
attendants' outfits with them. |
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Review
and change beneficiaries life insurance policies,
if necessary. |
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Review
other insurance (automobile, homeowners) if they
will be changing. |
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If
appropriate, purchase renters insurance. |
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If
you have agreed to a prenuptial agreement, meet
with lawyers. |
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Arrange
for furniture movers (if necessary). |
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Open
joint checking and savings accounts. |
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Change
names on charge accounts. |
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Arrange
for new telephone listing. |
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Arrange
for housesitter during honeymoon. |
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Give
itinerary for honeymoon to one or both sets of parents.
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Confirm
ceremony details with officiant. |
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Finalize
wedding music with organist. |
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Finalize
music list for reception. Request special dances,
songs, etc. |
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If
appropriate, place liquor order. |
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Make
an itinerary for your wedding day. Give to all wedding
party members, parents, wedding consultant. |
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Wrap
gifts to each other, and gifts for attendants. |
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Pre-pack
any non-necessities for honeymoon. |
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Make
sure all transportation arrangements for wedding
party have been finalized. |
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Confirm
that all men have been fitted for formalwear.
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Call
guests who have not responded to invitations. |
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Call
caterer
for last minute details, preliminary head count. |
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Ask
post office to stop mail while you are away on your
honeymoon. |
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Fill
out change of address card at post office, if necessary.
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Notify
police of dates you will be away, ask them to check
on your home. |
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Obtain
travel tickets, itineraries. |
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Confirm
out-of-town guest reservations, transportation. |
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Make
list of emergency numbers of honeymoon locations,
and list of credit card numbers to leave at home with
both sets of parents. |
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Try
on wedding
gown to check fit and make sure it is pressed.
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Continue
packing for honeymoon. |
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Purchase
traveler's checks for honeymoon. |
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Remind
attendants about wedding day schedule. |
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Write
thank you
notes to all who helped you with wedding plans
and details. |
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Make
final payment for any services that require prepayment. |
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Make
up emergency kit with essentials to have on hand for
wedding and reception (needle, thread, safety pins,
tape, mirror, white bobbypins, scissors, tissue, extra
stockings). |
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Verify
that all attendants have wedding apparel. |
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Finish
honeymoon packing. |
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Set
aside everything you will need at ceremony site: gown,
headpiece, veil, accessories,
shoes, stockings, slip, emergency kit, purse, brush,
hairspray. |
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Give
each other wedding gifts. |
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Give
attendants' and groomsmen their gifts. |
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Give
the best man the officiant's fee. |
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Get
a good night's sleep! |
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Forget
any details that run amok. |
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See
hairdresser for wedding hairstyle. |
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Don't
forget rings and wedding license. |
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Thank
everyone for their help. |
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Have
a beautiful life together! |
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Thank
you for using BestWeddingPlanner.com
to help you plan the most important day of your life!
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